I recently wrote a blog (mostly) explaining my case of jealousy / envy against people throughout my life. I'd detail it all in this question if there was space, but there obviously isn't. So here's a link:
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseac...
Is my case of jealousy / envy going too far nowadays? Am I just being melodramatic? Anything else you want to say? Please let me know by posting a reply to this topic or the blog. Thanks.I'm suffering a bad case of jealousy / envy. What's your advice? Asking 2nd time = more answers %26amp; blog edited
WOW!!! I have never in my life known of somebody who is so jealous. First of all, there will ALWAYS be somebody better than you but there will ALWAYS be somebody worse than you. I bet that many people are so damn jealous of you because you are healthy and you could so many things they can't or won't have a chance to do. I don't know how to get rid of envy but I suggest that you should be very satisfied of who you are and how you look. Forget about the popular kids..... many of them are fake. Don't make them think that they are better than you. It's kind of sad that you are even jealous of your brother and the way your brother treats you. I think you should start from the beginning.....forget about all that people that you're jealous of, and take your friends seriously because you may find out that they are pretty cool. Everybody has a special talent and I suggest you look for yours. You don't have to be an athlete because only like one in a million makes it to a professional team. I'm sorry my answer is kind of long but I just couldn't really explain myself like I wanted to. I really hope this helps you in a way.Take care.I'm suffering a bad case of jealousy / envy. What's your advice? Asking 2nd time = more answers %26amp; blog edited
I haven't read your added link but it is normal to feel jealous of some people especially if its concerning your man and some other girl! nothing abnormal there but it just makes you soo unhappy ! you should think of all the greast attributes that YOU have and remember how greater person you are ! there is no point being jealous.. no matter what, there is always someone worse off than you! you will never have a happy life if you are concentrating on all the things you dont have.. read ';the secret';! ; )
Before I even go to the blog, I will say that jealosy is a sense of rejection and fear projected onto the other person.
No offense, but I think that you are a hater. You need some serious psychological and/or spiritual help. Please do yourself a favor.
your link doesn't work.
OK...when I skimmed your blog I immediately started searching for your age because I think what you have is just a bad case of the being a teenager. Smile..nothing is wrong with that..there is no need to label it all negative because it is what it is.
You will come into your own. You will get larger and more muscular----IF you want to. But you must be willing to work at it. Sitting around complaining and whining will not make you better at anything except complaining and whining.
Stop looking at others and feeling like they have what you want...look within yourself and find the positive things about yourself you like and focus on those things. You are wasting a lot of time focusing on negative emotions. Also, it is wrong to list the names of people in your blog. That is an invasion of their privacy...go back and be a bit more mature and use their initials...you are going to be okay, but you have to want to be okay...
And yes...you are being a bit melodramatic, but that is okay...just wrap it up and move on.
Smile...
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